Oct 27, 2009

LOVE Vs INFATUATION


Well friends Love infatuation ee rentiki madhya unna difference thelusukolea uth debbathintunnaru... Veeti gurunchi naa blog viewer/friend Sri ram From Vizag manchi article pampinchadu... naaku baaga nacchindhi.. meeku kooda nacchuddhi ani aasisthunna.. post ur comments n encourage him n also me... Sorry Sriram update konchem late ayyindhi... Click read more for dis beautifull  n meaning full article 


From my past experiences,from what i have read in books and magazines,from what i have heard from the people around me..,i have just kept my thoughts on paper and converted all those memories into words.....please do help me in improving my language by pointing out 
any errors if u find out.... This is what according to me is Love and Infatuation...! 

Infatuation is instant desire, one set of glands calling to another. 
Love is friendship that has caught fire.It takes root and grows,one day at a time. 
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity.You are excited and eager,but not genuinely happy.There are nagging doubts,unanswered questions,little bits pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon examine too closely. It might spoil the dream. 

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection.It is real.It gives you strength and grows beyond you,to bolster your beloved.You are warmed by his presence,even when he is away.Miles do not separate you. You want him near.But near or far,you know he is yours and you can wait.

Infatuation says,"We must get married right away.I can't risk losing him." 
Love says, "Be patient.He is yours. Plan your future with confidence." 
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement.Whenever you are in one another's company you are hoping it will end in intimacy. 

Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers. 
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating. 

Sometimes you check. 
Love means trust. You are calm, secure, and unthreatened.He feels your trust and it makes him even more trustworthy. 
Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later,but love never will. 
Love lifts you up.It makes you look up.It makes you think up.It makes you a better person than you were before. 

Therefore I sincerely request u to think for a while regarding the track on which their train of life is gonna be deviated,...ie., either towards the infatuation track or towards the True love track....I wish that you would take my words seriously and think for a while…. 
                                                                                                                          Regards, 
                                                                                                                          SRIRAM MALLIK.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yeah its really nice one ashok mama.... inthaki mee friend status enti ippudu commited/single...??

Anonymous said...

heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy chala bagaundiiiiiiiiiii im confident that nadi love ee ani its not infatuation kadu ani thankssssssss ashok